Pastor’s Shocking Sex Advice: Why He Recommends Sex Toys in Marriage

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Pastor says sex toys are not a sin in marriage, explains why he once recommended them to a couple (see video)

Apostle Joshua Aghasedo of Powerline Church has sparked a heated debate in Nigeria after stating that using sex toys in marriage is not a sin, as long as it is between husband and wife. The cleric made the comments during a sermon broadcast on the church's official YouTube channel.

Using Sex Toys in Marriage: A Sin or Not?

According to Apostle Aghasedo, sex toys should be seen as tools that can help married couples improve their intimate lives. He compared sex toys to everyday technological equipment, such as cars and mobile phones, to explain their practical role in a marriage. "Is using a sex toy a sin? Is driving a car a sin? A car to drive you from here to Dallas, is it a sin? Using the phone, is it a sin?" he asked during the sermon.

The pastor also clarified that he was speaking only about married couples and that using sex toys alone amounts to masturbation, which he believes is the same as fornication. "Now, if you engage in it on your own, it's called masturbation and another word for masturbation is fornication," he explained.

A Complex Conversation

The comments have sparked mixed reactions on social media, with many Nigerians debating whether sex toys have any place in Christian marriages. While some churches discourage their use entirely, other Christian leaders have argued that intimacy between married couples is a private matter, provided it remains within the boundaries of marriage. The conversation around sex toys has also grown in recent years, especially as more couples openly discuss ways of dealing with intimacy challenges in long-term relationships.

Apostle Aghasedo revealed that he had once advised a married couple to consider using a sex toy after looking at their situation carefully. He said the recommendation was made to help protect their marriage and prevent either partner from looking for satisfaction outside the relationship. "It's an equipment to help, to help the process, sex toy is only for married couples," he emphasized.

Reactions and Analysis

The cleric's comments have sparked a heated debate, with some Nigerians defending his stance while others have condemned it. "I think it's a good idea, as long as it's used within the context of marriage," said a commenter on social media. Another commenter argued that the use of sex toys in marriage is a personal choice and should not be judged by others. As the conversation around sex toys continues to grow, it remains to be seen how this debate will unfold.

In the meantime, Apostle Aghasedo's comments have added a new layer to the complex conversation around sex and intimacy in Christian marriages. While some may agree with his stance, others may view it as a departure from traditional Christian teachings. One thing is certain: the debate is far from over, and it will be interesting to see how this conversation evolves in the coming weeks and months.


Source: Pulse.ng

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